When a marriage ends, it doesn’t always have to come with courtroom drama, long battles, or resentment. Sometimes, two people can look at each other and say, “This just isn’t working anymore,” and decide to go their separate ways without a fight. If that sounds like where you are right now, dissolution of marriage might be the right path.
At Mary E. Papcke, Attorney at Law, we’ve helped couples in Parma, Middleburg Heights, Strongsville, and North Royalton end their marriages with dignity and mutual respect. Dissolution isn’t for everyone, but when it works, it’s a faster, more peaceful option for couples who agree on the terms of their separation.
Here’s what you need to know.
What Is Dissolution of Marriage in Ohio?
Unlike a traditional divorce—where one spouse files against the other—a dissolution is a joint filing. Both spouses come to an agreement before going to court. That means everything from property division to parenting time, child support, and spousal support is already worked out and signed off on in advance.
Once the agreement is ready, it’s filed with the court. About 30 to 90 days later, you attend a brief hearing, and if the court approves your agreement, the marriage is legally ended.
It’s simple, efficient, and far less stressful than a drawn-out contested divorce.
When Is Dissolution the Right Choice?
Dissolution only works when both parties are cooperative and honest. If one person is hiding money, refusing to talk, or pushing for full custody without compromise, dissolution probably isn’t the answer.
But if you and your spouse:
- Agree on who gets what
- Are on the same page about custody and parenting
- Can discuss finances without it turning into a fight
- Are both committed to a peaceful resolution
Then dissolution could save you time, money, and emotional energy.
One couple I worked with in Strongsville came in together and told me, “We’re not mad—we’re just ready to move on.” We helped them file for dissolution, and less than two months later, everything was finalized with zero court battles.
How a Lawyer Helps in a Dissolution
Even though you’re not going to court to argue, you still need legal guidance. A dissolution agreement is a legally binding contract—it needs to be done correctly, follow Ohio law, and protect both parties.
Here’s what we do at Mary E. Papcke, Attorney at Law:
- Draft the full agreement in clear, enforceable language
- Make sure your parental rights and financial interests are protected
- Handle the court filing
- Represent one spouse at the final hearing and ensure everything goes smoothly
The process is faster and more affordable than a contested divorce, but it still deserves careful legal attention. A sloppy agreement now can cause big problems later.
Common Missteps to Avoid
Even when couples are cooperative, there are a few mistakes that can trip things up:
- Skipping over retirement assets or debts
- Not clarifying parenting schedules in writing
- Assuming “50/50” means equal value, not just equal quantity
- Trying to DIY without knowing the law
I had a client from North Royalton who thought she and her ex had figured everything out. But after we reviewed their agreement, we found a huge gap in how they were dividing retirement accounts. We fixed it before filing—and saved her from years of confusion and potential legal trouble.
Is It Still Emotional? Of Course
Even in a friendly split, there are emotions. You’re ending a chapter of your life. That’s why having a calm, neutral legal guide is so important—we keep things focused and help you work through the uncomfortable stuff with clarity and compassion.
Let’s Help You Move Forward—Peacefully
Dissolution isn’t about who wins. It’s about moving on without making things harder than they have to be. At Mary E. Papcke, Attorney at Law, we’re here to help you do just that—with practical guidance, honest advice, and a process that puts your future first.
If you and your spouse are considering a peaceful end to your marriage, we’re ready to help. Visit www.BankruptcyAndDivorceLaw.com or call (440) 743-7000 to schedule a consultation.
We proudly serve Parma, Middleburg Heights, Strongsville, North Royalton, and surrounding Ohio communities.
You don’t have to go through this alone. Let’s work together to find the calmest, cleanest path forward.